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НЭГ. 2-3 НАСНЫ СИНДРОМЫН ТУХАЙ ТА МЭДЭХ ҮҮ

Хүүхдүүд 2-3 насанд “Би” төвтэй болж, бүхнийг өөрөө хийхээр оролдож эхэлдэг. Харин энэ үеийг нь ээж, аавууд өөрийнхөөрөө зүтгэлээ гэж хүлээж авдаг. Угтаа бол хүүхэд нь танин мэдэхээр оролдож байгаа юм. Тиймээс хүүхдэдээ хүлээцтэй хандах хэрэгтэй. Анх удаа хийж байгаа хүүхэд буруу зөрүү хувцсаа өмсөнө, цаг их зарцуулдаг учраас эцэг, эхчүүд хүлээж, тэвчиж чаддаггүй байх нь элбэг. Ингээд байхаар хүүхдийнхээ өөрөө юм хийж үзэх, үр дүнг нь харах гэсэн хүсэл сонирхлыг нь дардаг. Аажимдаа энэ үйлдэл олон давтагдахаар хүүхэд бие даах хүсэл багатай, хүний хэлснээр амьдардаг хүн болох магадлалтай. Гэвч энд анхаарах ёстой нэг зүйл бол өөр нэгэн “Би” буюу би авна,  би л эзэмшинэ гэсэн буруу талын “Би” байдаг. Уйлж, уурлахаас нь айх, төвөгшөөх байдлаар хүслийг нь биелүүлээд  байвал хүмүүжлийн доголдол үүсгэнэ.

ХОЁР. ТА ХҮҮХДИЙНХЭЭ ХӨГЖИЛД ХААЛТ БОЛЖ БУЙ ЮМ БИШ БИЗ

Хүүхэд бол туршигч орчин. Юм хийж сурахаар оролдоход нь завааруулчихна, эвдэллээ гээд хориг тавиад байхаар шантрамтгай болдог. Өчүүхэн зүйл хийхдээ ч эрсдэлээс айдаг болно. Ингэснээр жирийн нэг үйлдвэрийн дамжилга дээр суудаг ажилчин анги болно гэсэн үг. Эцэг, эх өөрсдөө хүүхдээ ингэж “бэлдчихээд” насанд хүрсэн хойно нь их зүйл хүсдэг. Санаачлаад гэрээ цэвэрлэхгүй юм, хоолоо хийхэд яадаг байна гээд загнаад байдаг. Гэтэл тэр хүүхдийг юм хийх хүсэл зоригийг нь багад нь унтраачихсан байдаг. Багад нь унтраасан хэр нь том болсон хойно нь хийсэнгүй гэх нь авцалдахгүй.

ГУРАВ. ЗӨРҮҮД ХҮҮХЭДТЭЙ ЗӨӨЛНӨӨР ХАРЬЦАХ УУ, ШИЙТГЭХ ҮҮ

Хүүхдээ аль ч үед шийтгэх нь оновчтой арга биш тул учирлаж тайлбарлах ёстой. Хүлээцтэй хандах, өчүүхэн ч гэсэн өөрчлөлт гарвал урамшуулах нь зөв. Шийтгэвэл хүүхэд дараа нь ямар нэг юм болоход нууж эхэлдэг. Мөн шийтгэл айдас төрүүлдэг тул шинэ соргог зүйлийг туршиж хийхэд нь хаалт болно Тиймээс  яагаад буруу вэ, яаж засах вэ гэдгийг тайлбарлаж өгөх ёстой.

Жишээлбэл, үргэлж чихэр нэхдэг хүүхэд өдөр бүр чихэр нэхвэл шүд өвдөнө, түүний оронд долоо хоногийн нэг өдөр чихэр идэж байя, харин дараа нь шүдээ сайн угаачихвал шүд нь өвдөхгүй гэх мэтээр сайн, муу хоёуланг нь тайлбарлаж өгөх хэрэгтэй. Нөгөө талаар тохиролцоо хийх нь үр дүнтэй. Учир нь ээж, аавтайгаа тохиролцоо хийснээр хүүхэд илүү хичээдэг, итгэлийг нь алдахгүйн тулд чармайдаг. Үүн дээр нэг зүйл нэмж хэлэхэд, аливаа зүйл зуршил болтлоо хугацаа шаардана, алдаа ч их гарна. Гол нь эцэг, эхчүүд хүлээцтэй байх хэрэгтэй. Алдаа гаргахад нь загнах биш тохиролцсон гэдгээ эелдэг сануулах хэрэгтэй. Ахиц гарвал сайшаах хэрэгтэй. Түүнээс биш хий хоосон магт гэсэн үг биш.

ДӨРӨВ. МАГТАХАД ҮГИЙН СОНГОЛТ ЧУХАЛ

Магтаал оновчтой байх ёстой. Хүн бүрийн чаддаг зүйлийг хийснийх нь төлөө магтах нь өрөөсгөл. Харин өмнө нь чаддаггүй байснаа чаддаг болсон бол магтах нь зөв. Мөн үгийн сонголт чухал. Зарим хүн хүүхдээ магтахын зэрэгцээ доромжлоод байдаг. “Овоо шүү, энэ чинь бас хүн шиг юм хийж чаддаг юм байна” гэх нь хүүхдийн урмыг нь хугалдаг. Хэрэв тухайн үед магтах оновчтой үг олдохгүй байвал “Сайн байна” гээд хэлэхэд л болно. Юу ч хийгээгүй байхад нь “Мундаг шүү” гээд байхаар биеэ тоох эрсдэлд оруулдаг.

ТАВ. НАСАНД ХҮРСЭН ХОЙНО САНАА ЗОВОХГҮЙН ТУЛД БАГААС НЬ САХИЛГА БАТТАЙ ӨСГӨ

Сүүлийн үед хүүхэд хүмүүжүүлэх шинэ хэв маяг зонхилж байна. Энэ нь хүүхдээ багад нь маш хараа хяналттай, сахилга баттай өсгө. Хэдэн цагаас хойш гэрээс гарч болохгүй вэ, хүний үгийг гүйцэд сонсож сурсныхаа дараа өөрийнхөө үгийг хэл гэх мэтчилэн зарчмаар өсгө. Харин 16-18 нас хүрээд хүүхэд өөрийнхөө байх гэдэг үе дээр нь эрх чөлөөг нь олго. Багаасаа чанга өссөн хүүхэд өсвөр нас, насанд хүрсэн хойноо элдэв буруу замд орохгүй. Эцэг, эхчүүдийг нийтлэг алдаа нь багад нь дураар нь өсгөчихөөд өсвөр насанд нь хянаж цагдах гээд эхэлдэг. Өөрөөр хэлбэл, суурийг нь буруу тавьчихсан гэсэн үг. Багадаа хянагдаж сураагүй хүүхэд том болсон хойноо бол чадахгүй. Харин ч түүнийг эмзгээр хүлээж авна. Гэнэт л үйлдэл бүхнийг хянаад эхлэхээр тухайн хүүхэд эцэг, эх маань надад итгэдэггүй юм байна гэж ойлгон, тэдэнтэйгээ харьцахдаа хаалт үүсгэж эхэлдэг.

ЗУРГАА. БУСАДТАЙ БҮҮ ХАРЬЦУУЛ

Хүүхэд бүхэн өөрийн онцлогтой. Нэг хүүхэд чөлөөтэй ярьдаг байхад нөгөө нэг нь ярьж, өөрийгөө илэрхийлэх чадвар сул байдаг. Нэг нь урлагт авьяастай байхад нөгөөх нь техникийн сэтгэлгээ сайтай гэх мэтчилэн. Тиймээс айлын хүүхдүүд явж буй сургалт бүгдэд хүүхдээ явуулъя гэх нь буруу. Угаас сонирхолгүй бол амжилт гаргахгүй. Харин өөрийнх нь сонирхол юу вэ гэдэгт хамтдаа ярилцаж, дугуйлангуудад явуулах хэрэгтэй. Өөрийн онцлог, сонирхол зэргийг олтол удна, төлөвштөл удна.


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An intriguing reality is that, according to a research study performed as soon as, Puerto Ricans are the happiest country in the world. If this is true, it would mean that the renowned statement that money does not bring happiness has a grain of reality in it. It is estimated that practically half of the occupants of Public Relations have problem with destitution, which can be seen while traveling around the island. Since Puerto Rico is an island, it is absolutely an aircraft Or a ship, if you want to hook up on Public Relations throughout a cruise in the Caribbean. The primary airport terminal in San Juan the resources is well gotten in touch with significant US cities. From what I remember, our flight from Atlanta lasted 3 hours It is best to lease an auto in Puerto Rico and travel around the island this way. We had the chance to use the public Puerto Rico transport just as soon as, in the form of a ferryboat, and also if all the remainder functions according to similar regulations, I strongly advise this cars and truck than aggravating Idea – it’s actually worth renting out an automobile with a higher suspension. We did not know regarding it and we decided to buy some tiny gingerbread as a result of the very best cost. We promptly regretted this decision, due to the fact that some edges of Puerto Rico are best discovered with a 4×4 SUV. Caribbean, an island in between the Caribbean Sea and also the North Atlantic Sea, eastern of the Dominican Republic, tactically situated on the Mona Strait – a vital route to the Panama Canal; San Juan is among the largest as well as ideal all-natural harbors in the Caribbean; a a great deal of little rivers and high hills in the center of the nation ensure good watering of the nation; the south coastline is relatively dry; in the north, a productive strip of coastal plains. No one flies to Puerto Rico to see its cool federal government buildings. You want fun in the sunlight. Fortunately is that Flamenco Coastline will measure up to your musings and then some. Not just does it supply white sand and also blue water that vibrates coming up, but it likewise flaunts restrooms, lifeguards, food stands, volley ball webs as well as visitor stations where you can lease devices for things like snorkeling and also diving. 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The diversified sector has surpassed agriculture and is currently the major source of income. Since the 1950s, American business have actually been investing on the island, encouraged by the duty-free exchange with the UNITED STATES and tax obligation incentives. The island goes through US minimum wage legislation. Sugar production lowered, and the dairy sector and also livestock production ended up being the major income source. Tourist has been an important income source for years. It is estimated that in 1999 Puerto Rico was checked out by 5 million travelers. The diagnosis for 2000 is great, offered that the financial boom in the US and the development trends in tourism as well as building continue. Everybody wanted an item of the New Globe, and every person was willing to eliminate to get it. No place is this even more noticeable than the Castillo San Felipe del Morro. Formally referred to as La Ruta del Lechón, the Pork Highway is exactly what it sounds like: a three-mile stretch of roadway where every restaurant concentrates on pork. The most preferred type of pork is lechón, an unique recipe in Puerto Rico that includes spit-roasting a whole pig with a mix of sauces and seasonings. Obtain your blood pumping with a journey to the Toro Verde Theme park in main Puerto Rico. It supplies ziplines, rope training courses and also rock climbing difficulties that are ensured to make you pee your trousers a little when you recognize just what you have actually obtained right into! The park’s piece de resistance is “The Monster,” which is provided in the Guinness Publication of Globe Records as the lengthiest zipline in the world. With patched streets, active plazas and colorful residences that pile together like foundation of yellow, blue, environment-friendly, orange and also turquoise, Old San Juan is among the most dynamic locations to go to in Puerto Rico. This is why places like Isla Culebrita exist. Isla Culebrita is an uninhabited island off the coast of eastern Puerto Rico. It’s just concerning a mile long, and accessibility is restricted to ferries and also water taxis. Museo de Las Americas There are many galleries in Puerto Rico, but just a handful are in fact about Puerto Rico. The Museo de Las Americas is one of these priceless places. It has artifacts, symbols and textiles from loads of aboriginal teams that lived in Latin America before it was colonized, and also it can take you on a multi-continental journey through background. If you like to eat, Mayaguez is the city for you. 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